In remembering our deceased loved ones on All Souls Day, it is common for people to visit cemeteries and decorate gravesites. It is for this reason, this feast day reminds me of my grandfather, Sal, or as I call him, Pa-pa. Pa-pa was not exactly a church-going Catholic until the last year or so of his life, but he religiously honored and prayed for the dead by visiting the cemetery of our relatives and planting flowers, placing wreaths or palm. Today, my mom, her two sisters and their husbands continue Pa-pa’s tradition of visiting the cemetery and decorating the grave-sites of all their loved ones several times throughout the year. I make an effort to join them at least once a year to pay tribute to my relatives and to follow my grandfather’s example of acknowledging those who have gone before us.
I will never know why Pa-pa did not attend Mass with my grandmother for much of his adulthood, but something drew him into church towards the end of his life. Perhaps he knew his time was approaching and he found solace with the Lord. This year, I will be praying for all of my deceased loved ones, but I will be thinking especially of my Pa-pa with great hope.
Be sure to reflect on the memories of your loved ones. If you can, make some time to visit a cemetery, light a candle and attend Mass this All Souls Day. On Monday, Good Shepherd will be holding Mass for the Bereaved at 7:30 PM.
This reflection on All Souls Day was written by Good Shepherd Parishioner Christine Berg. Christine manages the social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter & Instagram) for Good Shepherd and works for the US Army as a Financial Program Analyst. She received an undergraduate degree in Business Administration with concentrations in Finance and Accounting from American University and an M.B.A. from Florida Institute of Technology.
Christine - this is such a lovely reflection. Thanks so much for enlightening us all on the meaning of All Souls' Day and for sharing with us the memories of your family. May we keep in our prayers all those who have gone before us.ReplyDelete